Online Dating 101
A few weeks ago, for my first post I talked about online dating do’s and don’ts. I thought I would return to the subject given that Bandeka will soon be launching some cool new features in a few weeks....
View ArticleA Sprint to the Alter- Taking a Page out of the Kardashian Book
You must have been living under a rock for the past few months if you haven’t heard about Kim Kardashian’s wedding on August 20th. Kardashian wed Kris Humphries in a lavish style wedding- reports say...
View ArticleShould You Remain Friends With An Ex?
Given the success of my last music-inspired post, I had to do another one. This link http://bossip.com/463076/adele-forgives-ex-boyfriend-who-inspired-album-21-90210/ popped up on my twitter timeline...
View ArticleWhat a Black Woman Has to Say About Submission… You Might Be Surprised.
I think one of the most dreaded words for an independent woman is ‘submit’. I don’t need to go into much detail as to why some independent women dread this word/concept within the context of a...
View ArticleIs It Better to Be Alone, or to Settle?
I’ve been sent this article by a few people, and after reading it I still don’t know what to think. For those of you who haven’t seen Kate Bolick’s ‘All the Single Ladies’ article or some form of...
View ArticleWhy Women Should Listen To The Advice of Men
We have some really interesting features coming up on www.bandeka.com, and I would encourage you to email us at talktous@bandeka.com if you’re currently not on the site. This weekend I was having a...
View ArticleWestern Ideals: A Positive or Negative Influence on African Marriages
I must say, after seeing this video: http://www.businessinsider.com/sheryl-sandberg-husband-2011-12 I couldn’t wait to write this post. In the short clip, Facebook COO Sheryl Sandberg describes her...
View ArticleDo You Have Something to Say About African Love? Guest Blog for Bandeka!
I was thinking the other day that I want to spice things up on this blog, and I can only imagine just hearing from me can become quite boring, so I want to hear from you all! I know a lot of you have...
View ArticleTall, Milk Chocolate & Handsome.
I had a lot of fun writing this piece for the folks over at DustAccra. We, at Bandeka, have some-what of a crush on these guys and gals. Great people doing a great job over in Accra! Make sure to check...
View ArticleHe Was Never Gonna Wife You, Afua: 6 Ways to Know Before You Know
Harsh words, but a reality… he just wasn’t that into you. I spent some time with a close guy friend a couple weeks ago while stateside, and a slightly inebriated trip down relationship/situationship...
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